To manage and live with polarities in a way that is generative, it is essential to embrace the concept of polarities as natural and inevitable aspects of complex systems, rather than problems to be solved. This approach involves recognizing that polarities, such as control and autonomy or stability and change, are interdependent values that work best in tension with each other. The openness, vulnerability, and capacity to adapt of those managing/living the polarities shapes how generative the process of managing the polarities is.